Don't criticize your narcissist for failing. Just notice and find alternative ways to take care of things without comment.
SWEET RELIEF TIP #6: Rely on Yourself, Not So Much on the Narcissist in Your Life
Practice Tip #6: Consider alternative ways to get things handled. Are there other people who could help you?
Bonus Tip: Remember to couple Tip #6 with Tip #1 (Stay positive.)
SWEET RELIEF TIP #7: Pay Attention to Yourself
Practice Tip #7: Get some time alone. Clear your head. Enjoy yourself.
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